Q: How do I prepare my other children for the new baby?

Children are naturally curious. When they see your abdomen swelling, they will ask questions:)

1) Give an honest answer.

Example: "There is a baby inside mummy." Let the child feel the baby kicking inside you.

2) Assure your older child that you love her.

Sometimes, they may feel insecure. Look through her baby photos with her and explain that she was once a baby too. Share some recollections with her.

3) Talk to her about what the coming of a new baby entail.

Such as baby crying, feeding, nappy changing and the joy of having a baby. This will help her understand her position as an older sibling and discourage her from attention-seeking behaviour.

4) Involve the child in preparing for the baby's arrival.

Let the child choose some of the baby's new clothes. Avoid passing down a favourite comfort toy of your child to your baby.

5) Explain to your child when your delivery date approaches who will be taking care of her and for how long.

Assure her that she can visit you and the baby in a few days in hospital.

6) Give her lots of attention when your child visits you in the hospital.

Make an effort to give her a hug. Show her her new baby sister and encourage her to pat the baby.

7) Wrap up a present for the older child.

Tell her that this present is from her baby sister or brother.

8) Do not expect your child to adjust to her new role immediately.

Give her time to adjust. Meanwhile, keep reinforcing gentle and loving behaviour towards your child. Spend time alone with her and do not overlook her physical and emotional needs.